Saturday, January 29, 2011


Trying to put myself in a better mood and not break down right now. Nights are always so rough. Nights are lonely. I don't sleep at night. I hate it. I'm so tired. I can't sleep.

I think I may have borderline personality disorder... or at least something very close. Yet another reason not to go to therapy. I mean, I don't like talking about this stuff and I don't want to. Not in a therapy session. It's awkward. But on top of it I think I have this underlying fear of being diagnosed with even more shit. I hate diagnoses. I hate being labeled. I hate it. 

I feel huge. My ass is way to big. My thighs are atrocious. My arms are flabby. I don't have the distinct jawline I once had. Don't even get my started on my stomach. And my hips. Oh my god. I hate it all. I hate all of me. 

I need serious fucking help. I don't want help. I just want someone to hold me and make me feel okay. I want to feel safe. I felt safe with C... safe from myself... safe from this hellhole I call my life. 

This is all straight from Mayo Clinic

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is an emotional disorder that causes emotional instability, leading to stress and other problems.
With borderline personality disorder your image of yourself is distorted, making you feel worthless and fundamentally flawed. Your anger, impulsivity and frequent mood swings may push others away, even though you desire loving relationships.
Borderline personality disorder affects how you feel about yourself, how you relate to others and how you behave.
When you have borderline personality disorder, you often have an insecure sense of who you are. That is, your self-image or sense of self often rapidly changes. You may view yourself as evil or bad, and sometimes may feel as if you don't exist at all. 
I also read that eating disorders, anxiety, depression, stress disorders (PTSD), mood disorders, and substance abuse can go along with BDP.

It's a lot about being emotionally unstable. I don't think that I really have it... I dunno, I just seem to have a lot of the symptoms but it's not really that bad in me that it would be diagnosed. Unless I went somewhere because they just like to diagnose and label everyone that comes through the door.

I dunno... my whole life I've just known there was something wrong with me. I was off in some way. When I was little I used to think I had some disease that no one had ever heard of before. Like I was the first to have it. I knew I was fucked up from the very start.

I really don't know where I'm going with this post... I guess I just wanted to share...


  1. I have borderline personality disorder. It started off as bipolar. Now I have like 7+ labels. It's bogus. If you do have borderline, the best therapy for it is DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy).

  2. Most psychiatric diagnostic criteria sounds as broadly applied as a horoscope. My college roommate had BPD which made her extremely manipulative. For example, her boyfriend confronted her about cheating, so she told him she couldn't bear his forgiveness because she's an awful person and wanted to cut herself. She would threatening suicide (not suicidal, difference) to get her way all the time. She was impulsive, promiscuous, an addictive personality, etc. It goes much deeper than emotional instability.

    Self-diagnosis is a common phenomenon in med students. You might've fallen into the same trap. Don't worry about it, think of the adage that if you think you're crazy, you probably aren't.

  3. Thanks guys.. yeah I dont think I have it I just... I dunno I met a lot of the 'symptoms' I'm not manipulative AT ALL though